DR. CHRIS REGAN, psyD

Licensed Marriage family therapist Associate

Over 35 years of experience

DR. CHRIS REGAN, psyD

Licensed Marriage family therapist Associate

Over 35 years of experience

Insight Into Overcoming Addiction

"No matter what the reason the person comes in for therapy, it all boils down to a truth which seems deceptively simple but is in fact complicated and all-encompassing. It is that this person has looked at themselves and does not like the person they have become, and that they believe that somewhere within themselves is rising the possibility of being another sort of person, the one they were meant to be." - Carl Jung  

Couples/Families

Many couples wait too long to address the issues within their relationship. A couple is often a family with children, and the harm that the children are suffering (and I use that word intentionally) is not recognized when parents are in their own crisis. I can help.

Addiction

All addiction is the result of one thing, and one thing only. Whether it is pills, weed, alcohol, heroin, or gambling, pornography, screens or sex, the addicted person does not want to feel their feelings. I’m not talking about feeling blue – a little down; I’m not talking about feeling anxious about an upcoming test or date or new job. I am talking about feeling like I am not good enough, a broken person, a loser with no chance of being successful in life.

End of Life Anxiety

The reality that we human beings do not live forever is rarely discussed. Reminders like terminal illness and aging bring this reality into the light. 

About Dr. Chris Regan, PhD

Marriage Family Therapist Associate

Kindness: this is my number one treatment modality. “Walk a mile in someone else’s shoes.” Joining you where you are without judgement or criticism comes from my many years of education and my own life experiences, but mostly it comes from my heart.

Frequently Asked Questions

Learn How it Works!

How can therapy help me?

A number of benefits are available from participating in therapy. Therapists can provide support, problem-solving skills, and enhanced coping strategies for issues such as depression, anxiety, relationship troubles, unresolved childhood issues, grief, stress management, body image issues and creative blocks. Many people also find that counselors can be a tremendous asset to managing personal growth, interpersonal relationships, family concerns, marriage issues, and the hassles of daily life. Therapists can provide a fresh perspective on a difficult problem or point you in the direction of a solution. The benefits you obtain from therapy depend on how well you use the process and put into practice what you learn.

Why do people go to therapy and how do I know if it is right for me?

People have many different motivations for coming to therapy. Some may be going through a major life transition (unemployment, divorce, new job, etc.), or are not handling stressful circumstances well. Some people need assistance managing a range of other issues such as low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, addictions, relationship problems, spiritual conflicts and creative blocks. Therapy can help provide some much needed encouragement and help with skills to get them through these periods. Others may be at a point where they are ready to learn more about themselves or want to be more effective with their goals in life. In short, people seeking therapy are ready to meet the challenges in their lives and ready to make changes in their lives.

Do I really need therapy? I can usually handle my problems.

Everyone goes through challenging situations in life, and while you may have successfully navigated through other difficulties you’ve faced, there’s nothing wrong with seeking out extra support when you need it. In fact, therapy is for people who have enough self-awareness to realize they need a helping hand, and that is something to be admired. You are taking responsibility by accepting where you’re at in life and making a commitment to change the situation by seeking therapy. Therapy provides long-lasting benefits and support, giving you the tools you need to avoid triggers, re-direct damaging patterns, and overcome whatever challenges you face.

What is therapy like?

Because each person has different issues and goals for therapy, therapy will be different depending on the individual. In general, you can expect to discuss the current events happening in your life, your personal history relevant to your issue, and report progress (or any new insights gained) from the previous therapy session. Depending on your specific needs, therapy can be short-term, for a specific issue, or longer-term, to deal with more difficult patterns or your desire for more personal development. Either way, it is most common to schedule regular sessions with your therapist (usually weekly).

It is important to understand that you will get more results from therapy if you actively participate in the process. The ultimate purpose of therapy is to help you bring what you learn in session back into your life. Therefore, beyond the work you do in therapy sessions, your therapist may suggest some things you can do outside of therapy to support your process – such as reading a pertinent book, journaling on specific topics, noting particular behaviors or taking action on your goals. People seeking therapy are ready to make positive changes in their lives, are open to new perspectives and take responsibility for their lives.

What about medication vs. therapy?

It is well established that the long-term solution to mental and emotional problems and the pain they cause cannot be solved solely by medication. Instead of just treating the symptom, therapy addresses the cause of our distress and the behavior patterns that curb our progress. You can best achieve sustainable growth and a greater sense of well-being with an integrative approach to wellness. Working with your medical doctor you can determine what’s best for you, and in some cases a combination of medication and therapy is the right course of action.

Does what we talk about in therapy remain confidential?

Confidentiality is one of the most important components between a client and psychotherapist. Successful therapy requires a high degree of trust with highly sensitive subject matter that is usually not discussed anywhere but the therapist’s office. Every therapist should provide a written copy of their confidential disclosure agreement, and you can expect that what you discuss in session will not be shared with anyone. This is called “Informed Consent”. Sometimes, however, you may want your therapist to share information or give an update to someone on your healthcare team (your Physician, Naturopath, Attorney), but by law your therapist cannot release this information without obtaining your written permission or a subpoena signed by a judge.

However, state law and professional ethics require therapists to maintain confidentiality except for the following situations:

* Suspected past or present abuse or neglect of children, adults, and elders to the authorities, including Child Protection and law enforcement, based on information provided by the client or collateral sources.
* If the therapist has reason to suspect the client is seriously in danger of harming him/herself or has threated to harm another person.

Asking For Help - Not So Easy

Without realizing it you've already gotten the hardest part behind you.  Think about the number of years and the number of times you've tried to ask for help but just couldn't go all the way.

Often asking for help has not had a good outcome; there might have been more pain.

Asking for help is not and never has been a sign of weakness.

Recovery from addiction cannot be done alone. That is a fact.

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(310) 920-1433

Email Address

drchrisregan@gmail.com